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EP122: When Change Comes Calling - transitions create opportunities

In this episode, Kreed shares thoughts regarding life's transitions and changes. She discusses how we can embrace these when it comes to estrangement and reconciliation to grow and evolve in our relationships. ---------------...

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April 21, 2024

EP122: When Change Comes Calling - transitions create opportunities

In this episode, Kreed shares thoughts regarding life's transitions and changes. She discusses how we can embrace these when it comes to estrangement and reconciliation to grow and evolve in our relationships. ---------------...

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April 14, 2024

EP121: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 4 of 4) - If I Could Just …

Interview with An Adult Daughter (part 4 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me. In this episode, this is the final piece of the interview with an estranged adult daughter. She discusses her mom's …

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April 7, 2024

EP120: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 3 of 4) - If I Could Just …

Interview with An Estranged Adult Daughter (part 3 of 4) - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me This adult daughter discusses the need to sort through her childhood memories to find out why she felt the …

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March 31, 2024

EP119: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 2 of 4) - If I Could Just …

Part 2 of 4 - Interview w/An Adult Daughter - If I Could Just Get My Mom To See Me. This adult daughter discusses her care and love for her mom even in the midst of estrangement and the hurt …

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March 24, 2024

EP118: Interview w/An Adult Daughter (part 1 of 4) - If I Could Just …

This is the first of a 4 part series for an interview with an estranged adult daughter. This conversation is insightful, deeply reflective and emotional. It's a must listen for any estranged parent and adult child or those wh...

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March 17, 2024

We’ll Never Heal If They Won’t Do The Repair Work WITH Me!

In this episode, Kreed discusses the difference between individual and joined work and why doing solo healing work can help relational healing to be easier and quicker. Also discussed is that healing happens in layers and wha...

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